After years of public feuding and sworn declarations of permanent estrangement, Real Housewives of New Jersey OG Teresa Giudice is surprisingly ready to bury the hatchet with her brother Joe and sister-in-law Melissa Gorga. Could this be the end of an era?
TL;DR
- Teresa Giudice has revealed she's open to reconciling with Joe and Melissa Gorga, even reaching out to them.
- Her surprising change of heart was inspired by her daughter Gia and her experience on "Special Forces."
- This potential family reunion comes amidst rumors and uncertainty surrounding casting for RHONJ Season 15.
Hold onto your sprinkle cookies, Bravo fans! Just when we thought the epic, decade-plus-long feud between Teresa Giudice and her brother Joe Gorga and his wife Melissa was cemented in reality TV history, Teresa herself is signaling a new chapter. In a series of recent interviews, the Real Housewives of New Jersey icon has not only hinted at a potential reconciliation but confirmed she's even reached out to her estranged family members.
This is a huge U-turn from her previous, very public stance. For years, Teresa has been adamant that the door to her relationship with Joe and Melissa was not just closed, but locked and sealed. So, what prompted this seismic shift? It seems a combination of personal growth and some heartfelt advice from her eldest daughter, Gia, played a significant role.
What Sparked Teresa's Change of Heart After Years of Conflict?

Teresa's latest openness began to surface during a September 2025 appearance on SiriusXM's Jeff Lewis Live. When asked about coexisting with the Gorgas, she dropped the bombshell phrase: "Never say never." This immediately sent ripples through the Bravo universe, given her previous firm stance.
She elaborated further in an October 2025 interview with Page Six's Virtual Reali-Tea, stating, "Time heals always — because then you forget. Like, you're angry when it first happens. But now, it's been… I'm married three years. So it's been three years. He didn't come to my wedding, so we haven't spoken in three years." Her emphasis on moving forward was clear:
"You can't talk about the past. Like, you really can't because if you talk about the past you're never going to really get anywhere. I would say just to move on because I think that you'll never get anywhere speaking about the past."
— Teresa Giudice, Page Six
The biggest revelation came on the October 9, 2025, episode of iHeartRadio's "I Do, Part 2" podcast, where Teresa confirmed she has "reached out" to Joe and Melissa. She credits her time on Fox's Special Forces: World's Toughest Test, which she filmed alongside her daughter Gia, as a major catalyst.
"Gia and I were on Special Forces. We spent a lot of time together before we went on Special Forces, and we talked a lot about a lot of things. So I want to be a good example for my children," Teresa explained. She expressed a desire for her four daughters—Gia (24), Gabriella (21), Milania (19), and Audriana (16)—to "always be there for each other." This newfound perspective is about practicing what she preaches: "Be a beautiful family. If someone doesn't get along, be the bigger person. Try to make it work. I've got to practice what I preach."
Insiders have corroborated Teresa's sincerity, telling RadarOnline.com that despite appearances, her motives aren't about desperation for a job, but a genuine desire for family peace influenced by Gia's wisdom.
Rewinding the Feud: A Decade-Long Saga of Family Drama on RHONJ

For those who might be new to the Jersey drama, or just need a refresher, the Giudice-Gorga feud isn't a new development; it's practically as old as RHONJ itself. Their issues first exploded on screen during Season 3 in 2011, marked by a shocking physical altercation between Joe Gorga and Teresa's ex-husband, Joe Giudice.
Over the years, the conflict simmered, flared, and became a central storyline, touching on everything from "sprinkle cookies" to infidelity allegations. The tension peaked once again when Joe and Melissa famously skipped Teresa's fairytale wedding to Luis Ruelas in August 2022. Teresa has repeatedly stated that she hasn't spoken to her brother in the "three years" since that event.
The Season 13 reunion in 2023 saw Teresa at her most resolute, declaring Joe and Melissa "out of her life for good." She famously yelled, "You're f-cking disgusting. Disgusting. This is not how I would raise my children, ever! You should be ashamed of yourself. And don't come following me!" Melissa and Teresa even refused to film together the following season, and the reunion had to be filmed in two separate segments to avoid direct interaction.
Following that, Teresa made several public pronouncements reaffirming the permanent split. In July 2024, she vowed "never again" to film with the Gorgas on Kelly Ripa's podcast and told PIX11's "New York Living" that the break was "a permanent break." On her own "Turning the Tables" podcast in 2024, she emphatically stated, "We're done, we're done. We're never making up. That's never going to happen." She even added that not even a "good payday" would fix things.
Given this extensive history of animosity and strong declarations, Teresa's recent change of heart is nothing short of astounding.
Melissa Gorga's Reaction and the Uncertain Future of RHONJ Season 15

As you can imagine, Teresa's sudden shift in rhetoric didn't go unnoticed by the Gorgas. Melissa Gorga herself expressed confusion during a September 17, 2025, sit-down with Page Six.
"The truth is, for the last year, the door has been closed. [Giudice] has said out loud on multiple platforms, podcasts, whatever it might be, that the door is closed. So, the truth is, I'm just confused why it might be opening or cracking a little bit," Melissa stated. She also highlighted the lack of contact, adding, "Neither of us have had any contact in probably two years at this point, so that's just so strange to come out with that out of nowhere."
This potential thawing of relations also comes at a very interesting time for RHONJ. The show has been on pause since Season 14 wrapped in 2024, and casting for Season 15 remains "in limbo." Andy Cohen, host of many Bravo shows, only offered a vague "we're close" in August 2024 when asked about the show's return. There have been rumors circulating that Melissa Gorga recently test-filmed with potential new cast members, a claim Melissa "refused to confirm or deny" to Page Six, simply stating, "They're figuring it out."
Some critics have suggested Teresa's sudden desire for reconciliation is a strategic move to secure her spot on the show, given the casting uncertainty. However, Teresa firmly rejects this notion. "Everyone is saying, 'OMG, she's desperate because she needs her job,'" she told her "Turning the Tables" podcast listeners. "No, I'm not. I'm not desperate. Like I said, if Bravo doesn't want me back, I'm fine with it. If they want me back, I'm fine with both." An insider echoed this sentiment to RadarOnline.com, stating, "Teresa is strong. She will be fine whichever way this works out."
While Bravo remains tight-lipped about any official casting decisions, reports suggest that Melissa Gorga, Margaret Josephs, and Dolores Catania are currently likely to return for the upcoming season. The big question now is whether Teresa's olive branch will lead to a genuine reconciliation or just another dramatic twist in the ongoing saga of the Real Housewives of New Jersey. Only time will tell if "time heals all wounds" for this famously fractured family.
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Sources
- Page Six (Virtual Reali-Tea)
- SiriusXM (Jeff Lewis Live)
- iHeartRadio ("I Do, Part 2" podcast)
- BravoTV.com
- RadarOnline.com
- Kelly Ripa ("Let's Talk Off Camera" podcast)
- PIX11 ("New York Living")
- Teresa Giudice ("Turning the Tables" podcast)
- PEOPLE
- Las Culturistas podcast (Andy Cohen interview)