Angela Oakley's money problems and Charles's past: Is their marriage about to end?

Angela Oakley is going through some very difficult times on The Real Housewives of Atlanta season 16. People have been watching her relationship with her husband Charles Oakley, a former NBA star, very closely, and I wonder how much more they can take. Angela and Charles's marriage is going through a lot of problems, from money problems to doubts about loyalty. This makes for some very interesting, if sad, TV.

Reality TV has always appealed to me because of how honest it is, and Angela's willingness to show her weaknesses is proof of that. She's talked about their problems, such being in debt for millions of dollars because of failed house flipping schemes. This kind of openness is rare, and it makes me want her to win even when things seem to be going wrong. But it's evident that the emotional and financial toll is huge, and it's plain to see how these problems are putting a lot of stress on their marriage.

Angela's real estate business has put her in a lot of debt.

Her bad investments are a big reason why they fight.

Angela said on The Real Housewives of Atlanta that she has "all of my money in these houses" and that she is "in the ditch about all of them." This money problem isn't simply a problem for Angela; it's also hurting her marriage. She told her therapist, Wendy, that she is "always asking Charles to put more money into these properties." But Charles has gotten to the point where he "doesn't want to." This refusal shows that their financial cooperation and trust are very broken. Angela even said that she "went against" Charles when he first told her "not to do it."

The classic problem with reality TV is that dreams and actual life don't always match up. Angela's choice to cut her losses, saying "Sometimes, you have to cut off your finger to save your hand," demonstrates that she is in a lot of agony and has accepted defeat. I can only image how hard it would be to lose millions and go against your partner's advice. This money problem is a big shadow over their relationship, and it's hard to see how they can totally heal and trust each other again without a lot of work.

Charles Oakley's past cheating and distance still cause problems in their marriage.

Anniversary Apart Highlights Trust Issues That Won't Go Away

Charles's alleged cheating is still a big problem, even though he has money problems. A man called Marcus walked up to Angela during a cast event and said, "Cheers if your name is Angela and your husband is cheating on you!" Charles was "oblivious" at the time, but this public charge dredged up old wounds. Angela had already talked about a "brief separation" early in their marriage because Charles had "instances of infidelity." She said, "Right now we're good." "I trust him," yet these old problems are clearly still touchy.

Even little things show how tense things are. Angela was in Grenada for a cast vacation on their eighth wedding anniversary, and Charles didn't appear very engaged in their FaceTime contact. Angela said, "He's not even paying attention." She thought he was "being petty" since he said, "Tonight, there will be no bedroom action because I'm in Grenada." His refusal to wear his wedding band because he's "lost so many of them" and his cavalier dismissive of her sentiments say a lot. Angela has been in treatment and fought for their relationship for years, but she still has to fight to feel recognized and important.

I can understand how Angela feels. She's attempting to "hold it together" even though others are accusing her and her spouse doesn't seem to care. Angela calls Charles a "pit bull" when she talks about how he reacts to disrespect. This makes it extra tougher for her to talk about these problems directly. The fact that they don't have wedding rings, which is a little but important indicator for many, is a clear source of conflict that shows deeper problems with their trust and commitment.

Angela and Charles Oakley's marriage is still up in the air.

Can they get past these deep-seated issues?

Angela and Charles's marriage was still in a bad place when The Real Housewives of Atlanta season 16 ended. Charles is upset over the cheating claims and decides to leave Angela behind at the event. This shows that he is tired of the drama, but maybe not totally committed to fixing the main problems. Angela, on the other hand, is "clinging on to my family" for help. It's a clear image of a couple who are having trouble finding common ground because of outside demands and problems within themselves.

Their story is a strong reminder that even when you're famous and rich, you still have to work hard on your relationships, be honest, and be willing to face hard facts. I really hope Angela finds the serenity and stability she needs, whether it's in her current marriage or by finding a new way to move forward. Their time on The Real Housewives of Atlanta isn't over yet, and I'll be waiting to see if they can really fix the big problems that have come up.

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Questions and Answers About Angela and Charles Oakley's Marriage

What is the main problem that is putting stress on Angela and Charles Oakley's marriage?

Angela and Charles Oakley's marriage is having problems because Angela lost a lot of money on failed real estate deals and Charles cheated on her in the past, which still causes friction and distrust.

How Much Money Did Angela Oakley Lose When She Sold Her House?

Angela Oakley said that her failed house flipping efforts cost her "millions of dollars," which put her in a lot of debt.

Did Charles Oakley say he wouldn't help Angela with her debts?

Yes, Charles Oakley got to the point where he wouldn't give Angela any more money for her failing homes, even when she asked him to.

Have anyone said that Charles Oakley cheated on Angela before?

Yes, Charles Oakley has been accused of cheating on his wife several times, including a public incident on The Real Housewives of Atlanta and a brief separation early in their marriage because of his "instances of infidelity."

Why doesn't Charles Oakley have his wedding ring on?

Angela is upset that Charles Oakley doesn't wear his wedding band because he says he has "lost so many of them" and thinks it's just a matter of matching his jewelry, not a sign of commitment.